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CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
5/28/2017 7:45 am

Well damn!

When it comes to blog drama - I play the clueless make EXCEEDING well.

I know many that give up seeking partners via the site, and hang around "just for the blogs"

Best wishes girl.

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40Deuce 46M
5725 posts
5/28/2017 7:47 am

The check's in the mail and I'll see you church and don't you ever change

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northshoretake2 50M  
1626 posts
5/28/2017 8:00 am

Thanks for all the great blogs! You will be missed.

Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
5/28/2017 8:08 am

Well, since you asked, here is my opinion........


CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
5/28/2017 8:13 am

Say it ain't so

Thanks for advice and chats and for being a friend.


flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
5/28/2017 8:40 am

Losing women at an alarming rate, and good ones too. I think it is better to at least give some form of notice as quite juddering to see de-activated account, especially if no external contact details held

you are right about many of the reasons that you and others have for leaving, and I think the small-minded intolerance, of the 'tolerant' progressive' PC brigade is frankly the biggest scourge of quality right now, and you have mentioned them already re the politics

I know we rarely chat these days outside of blog comments as we use different messaging services of choice, but you will be missed


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
5/28/2017 8:57 am

Oh Lala what a shame, I enjoy your posts and comments but I understand entirely, this place is addictive and one doesn't REALLY get much out of it.
I hope you find what you seek xx


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
5/28/2017 9:15 am

I'm going to miss your posts. Always interesting and thought provoking.
We need to get together at Braums sometime in the near future!

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
5/28/2017 9:19 am

Well fuck.

While I understand.... I still want to throw a little tantrum at losing your blog.


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
5/28/2017 9:43 am

Well dang...and I just started following your blog.

I completely understand - I got to the point of no longer wanting to meet people here, a long time ago! I know there are a few good men on this site but it's like finding a needle in a haystack and I no longer had the patience. Proudly in the 'only here to blog' camp for five years now. And somehow I never seem to be in the loop with any of the drama here.

But I will admit that sometimes I think it would be good to leave, just to reduce my daily social media overhead.

Best wishes to you!


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
5/28/2017 10:02 am

It always saddens me to read about snarkiness, rude comments, backstabbing, and outright blog wars. I 've been blogging for 8 years, and am lucky to say I've seen and experienced very little of it.

I was a reader of your blog, long before I became a watcher. Your posts were always well crafted, insightful and funny. I have also enjoyed ore brief friendship.

You, and your blog, will be sorely missed.

I wish you happiness. Live Long and Prosper.

What more can I say? Just that I wish you h

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GhostofH 65M
22788 posts
5/28/2017 10:17 am

I have to agree with Charmer.... on this one. But truth be told, I am very VERY 'Happy' for you. You've managed to break free from here, and really that's what it's all about. This site is NOT an end-all. It is merely a landing spot (rest stop) on the journey. There are some, (like me who have been here well over a decade) and they are many who come, or is it cum, and stay for a bit, get what they need, and move on. I think those are the lucky ones. I wish you all my very best. *hugs*


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
5/28/2017 11:06 am

Sorry to see you go Lala...I enjoyed reading your blog and those times you visited mine and left comments. It certainly can be a crazy place here on AdultFriendFinder....to put it mildly!

Here's hoping you find some good sex.....wherever that may be!!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


Red_Elf 50F
617 posts
5/28/2017 12:09 pm

I find being regularly irregular a pretty good shield from blogger drama. I've never really ever been involved it in.

The rest of my comment's you can find in Red's blog entry (well, the other Red).

MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .

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wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
5/28/2017 12:31 pm

I always smiled when your line lit up.

i want to thank you for your words and your spirit. i will miss both. it pains me to hear that you were in any way hurt by blogging here. with a heart so big, i just don't know who would have any reason to do anything but love you.

may the road rise up to meet you. may the wind be always at your back.....

Margie

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
5/28/2017 1:50 pm

    Quoting flowerkings2012:
    Losing women at an alarming rate, and good ones too. I think it is better to at least give some form of notice as quite juddering to see de-activated account, especially if no external contact details held

    you are right about many of the reasons that you and others have for leaving, and I think the small-minded intolerance, of the 'tolerant' progressive' PC brigade is frankly the biggest scourge of quality right now, and you have mentioned them already re the politics

    I know we rarely chat these days outside of blog comments as we use different messaging services of choice, but you will be missed
I believe the issues of about a year ago by the 'tolerant' progressive' PC brigade is what began a severe downhill slide and a number of people left because of the intolerance of those you mentioned. Once there is censorship (by intimidation in this case) the freedom to express views, even those that might be generally unacceptable, begins to be constrained. But that is for another post I am brewing up.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
5/28/2017 1:53 pm

I don't disagree with your reasons L. Your solution obviously saddens a lot of people including me. We shall talk later.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


tickles4us 62M
7262 posts
5/28/2017 5:00 pm

Well I have enjoyed reading your blog posts and will miss them. But I can understand finding better things to do with the limited time we have in life. In person, rather than online seems to me to be a more productive way to go when it comes to finding people. Especially if we aren't finding what we want here.

Vive La Difference


mc_justmc 63M

5/28/2017 6:20 pm

Happy Trails To You.....


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
5/28/2017 7:35 pm

I'm gonna miss you my sweet.

Thoughts from the Garden...


Dick4001567 64M
3941 posts
5/28/2017 8:53 pm

You will certainly be missed I assure you of that from my end because I have seen and read a majority if your blogs for quite some time now and you have truly been a very genuine person and you have also spoken from the heart regarding how you feel and believe with conviction your points of view in which I truly respect always!


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
5/28/2017 10:00 pm

Hope you find another place to express yourself. The option is always ooen to come back (many do). I have never taken a sabatical from AdultFriendFinder. I have just changed how I use the site as I change phases in my life. I am on vanilla dating sites and much prefer the honesty toward sex here. I do not see myself leaving anytime soon. Other than some jealousy in local groups I chatted and socialized with years ago, I have not been involved in any drama, I just do my thing and let others do theirs. I have blogged for many years and rarely aware of the drama and pettiness among bloggers.

I agree this site has changed in the last ten years. Hopefully, we made changes in our lives during that time too. Sometimes that change makes it necessary to move on and explore other options. No apologies necessary.

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
5/29/2017 11:57 am

Las noticias no son buenas.........


redhotfun4you2 61F  
1596 posts
5/29/2017 5:15 pm

I wish you the best Lala, I will miss you. I have enjoyed sharing thoughts and ideas with you.


KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
5/30/2017 12:49 am

You know I am going to miss you.
Who else have I been able to disagree with and still look forward to hearing your point of view? You are so respectful when you disagree. I have to admit that you and I agree on more than we disagree.
I have loved some of your posts and your sense of humor and impishness always made me smile, like when you say you are a bratty 5 year old.

I got some perspective while moving and was on the site very little over 2 weeks. I have school coming up and will be on the site less and will not be posting as much. I hope you get what you are looking for, and if you come back and I am able to read your posts, I will certainly send all the smiles and affection and laughter I can.

Be happy. Be well.
kk

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BlackRayne74 49F
507 posts
5/30/2017 3:42 am

Nooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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dayzeeme 55F
7024 posts
5/30/2017 6:32 pm

omg Lala. You have been one of my absolute favorite people in the blogs, both for what you wrote, and for what you contributed to others posts. I will surely miss you, and this place just won't be the same without some lala insights!!!! Be well, and be happy!!


TXArmyWife 51F
1964 posts
6/2/2017 12:40 pm

I barely got to know you. Wish I had more time. Good luck to you!

I need a really great kiss!!


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
6/24/2017 12:26 pm

Well said hun..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


1EA2 58F
1425 posts
6/27/2017 4:31 pm

I guess I am one of the disingenuous ones. I hope you change your mind as I like your blog. I had a health scare, thought I might have breast cancer and was pretty freaked out about it and since all my photos were of my boobs, you can see how I needed to step back and re evaluate. I missed talking to everyone so decided to come back but without the 'dating' part.
Hugs girlfriend.


90percentchance 55M
52 posts
7/13/2017 1:22 pm

you cant leave... I JUST FOUND YOU.

Or Visa - Versa

Give peace a chance.

90PercentChance


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