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Looking for advice from married women who have successfully found sex outside marriage 2/8/2005
I am pursuing the idea of having sex with another man. My
husband is the only man I have ever slept with and I'm
hoping that will change soon. I'm not sure yet if what
I want is a one-time experience or to find a fuck buddy. I
do know that the city I live in is small and it feels even smaller
when I start contemplating having sex with another man
and no one knowing about it.
<br> ...
1 Comments, 315 Views,
17 Votes
,2.42 Score
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the super glue of love.... 2/2/2005
There is nothing more important in a relationship then
friendship. If you're not the best of friends then
not a damn thing you try will work. If you two don't honestly
just enjoy hanging out together, then there will be no future
for you. Love, whatever the Hell that is, will quickly burn
off. But friendship will last forever.
2 Comments, 203 Views,
19 Votes
,3.26 Score
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trust 2/2/2005
Trust is the what a relationship is.. If you dont have trust
then you should look at your relationship because it probably
isnt very strong
1 Comments, 155 Views,
17 Votes
,2.84 Score
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Truth in adversiting 2/2/2005
I have spent many months getting to know two different women.
Both turned out to be other than what they said. One was 300lbs
plus ( said she had a "few x-tra pounds") and
the other revealed at the last minute that she had an STD
after saying she was clean. What EXACTLY does a man have
to say to get a woman to be truthful?
2 Comments, 348 Views,
15 Votes
,5.73 Score
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Time & Friendship & Honesty! 2/1/2005
In building a relationship, friendship should be the first
and main focus. Not only it takes away the stress of dating,
but it builds a stronger foundation. Honesty is also very
important, for both to know where they are going in the relationship
at all times. If someone’s feelings changed, it is better
to be honest than to lie. The truth may sometimes hurt but
lies hurt even more ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
15 Votes
,6.04 Score
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Strong Foundation in a relationship 1/31/2005
I find the best way to build a relationship is through a common
background. I see two people coming from the same background
with the same moral values as going a lot further than a couple
that has little in common. This is usually the foundation
of a relationship and it keeps one another interested.
A better foundation in a relationship can usually lead
to better sex.
0 Comments, 482 Views,
19 Votes
,2.33 Score
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Going from Friend to Fucking 1/27/2005
I seem have a problem meeting chicks, thats the number one
reason I'm on this site. Whenever I meet a chick and
I'm not really interested in her she ends up wanting
me. But when I meet a chick and I would like to date her I end
up fucking up. Is it because with the chicks im not interested
in I tend to act indifferent and they like guys who don't
give a fuck what they think? Then with the ...
4 Comments, 61 Views,
19 Votes
,4.05 Score
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For Ladies Only: Annihilate Male Liar's Quickly 1/24/2005
OK OK, I’ve been a bit rough the last couple of days, going
way out of my way to make trouble for you.
I’m sorry ladies.
I’m going to attempt to make it up to you now, by suggesting
some strategies to weed out males liar’s quickly, so you
don’t waste your precious time with them.
First, let’s pull the curtain back, and have a peek at the
core ...
2 Comments, 403 Views,
21 Votes
,1.27 Score
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How soon is to soon to sleep with someone? 1/19/2005
I met this guy a few weeks ago thru a friend, the first time
we went out we hit it off. we have alot in common, and we even
like alot of the samethings. About a week after we met for
the first time. We slept together. We still see each other
and hang out, but now things seem ackward. What should I
do?
7 Comments, 102 Views,
51 Votes
,3.75 Score
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Finding a third... 1/17/2005
My husband and I have been using the site for a few months
now. There are a few things that I guess we just don't
understand. First, why would a female member include in
her profile that she is looking for M/F couples when after
reading her profile it's clear that she's only
looking for a man? My guess is that they're just trying
to increase the number of "hits" on their profile,
but ...
2 Comments, 218 Views,
11 Votes
,3.92 Score
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((Build Win-win Relationships)) 1/16/2005
((Build Win-win Relationships))
<br>
The secret to building win-win relationships is honesty.
You
first have to be honest with yourself as to who you are and
what you want, then act accordingly. You must also be honest
with others that you have relationships with as to who you
are and what you want from the relationship. Surprise,
surprise, the relationships that do not give you ...
1 Comments, 89 Views,
11 Votes
,5.97 Score
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How to get a man to do as you wish, without the typical struggle. 1/16/2005
Do you find men to be difficult and confounding?
Consider this:
First of all, let's get the truth on the table. Females
(All animal's, including humans) are superior to
males. No matter the measure, females come out on top, except
brute strength.(Although pound for pound that may not
be accurate.) You live longer, are healthier, better able
to adapt and accept, work under stress more ...
4 Comments, 206 Views,
14 Votes
,2.34 Score
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honesty is the best policy 1/16/2005
I know it sounds lame and cheesy, but in building a relationship
both parties have to be honest with each other. Especially
with their sexual needs. If not the relationship will die
a long slow death. And that is Hell to live in.
9 Comments, 263 Views,
22 Votes
,4.57 Score
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AdultFriendFinder Can Be Tough 1/16/2005
AdultFriendFinder can be really tough. I am a young, pretty good looking
married guy looking to fufill some fanasies here and no
matter how nice, patient or polite I am either no one is interested
(so it seems) or I get blasted for what I am trying to do here.
Having your opinion is fine, but to each his own... if I am
understanding of your decision to not be interested people
here should try to be ...
13 Comments, 300 Views,
43 Votes
,4.14 Score
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Relationships and "the lifestyle" 1/16/2005
Well, one thing is for sure, if you are a swinger and have
tried all different types of connecting with others who
are "like-minded" - you have probably run into
the same problem occuring - no matter what the venue....
Trust Issues.
<br>
Clearly, there is a new age of swingers coming out of the
closet. "Lifestylers" - (as they refer to themselves)
these days will always air on ...
0 Comments, 152 Views,
17 Votes
,3.69 Score
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Frends and lovers? 1/15/2005
I met a girl a couple years ago and had a instant attraction
to her, over the next couple years we have become best freinds,
Doing couple stuff together, but with no intimitsy (SP)
I recently confessesed to her that my feelings went beyond
freindship, and wanted to become closer, And she told me
we couldn't because we were such good friends and she
dosnt have those type of feelings for me. ...
3 Comments, 119 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Give me a reason to love you 1/14/2005
I'm so tired, of playing
Playing with this bow and arrow
Gonna give my heart away
Leave it to the other girls to play
For I've been a temptress too long
<br>
Just. .
<br>
Give me a reason to love you
Give me a reason to bee, a woman
I just wanna be a woman
<br>
From this time, unchained
We're all looking at a different picture
Thru this new ...
0 Comments, 59 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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Misconceptions 1/14/2005
I am writing this article out of frustration and dissapointment
resulting from "near misses" in establishing
a relationship.
An AdultFriendFinder member in Bolder, Co., wrote "I feel that men
get the raw end of the deal and are made to look like that is
all they want is sex. Truth of the matter is women are snobbish,
prude and selfish when it comes to sex. There's a dark
side to male sexuality that ...
1 Comments, 149 Views,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score
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will you have a threesome 1/12/2005
My boyfriend asked me to have a threesome with him and another
woman. He say it's not because he wants to be with another
woman it's just a fantasy he has and wants to do it with
me involved. I am insecure about the whole thing because
i am worried about how he will feel about seeing me with another
woman. But i want to do it, I just don't want to lose him
because of it. HELP!
3 Comments, 234 Views,
19 Votes
,4.05 Score
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Threesomes 1/11/2005
My spouse and I have been involved in threesomes with other
women.We have always done this together.She is bi and he
is not.She feels its ok to now see women without the man The
man now feels left out.Hes not bi so him being with another
man is out of the question.Should the man be allowed to sleep
with other women without her.
7 Comments, 113 Views,
70 Votes
,5.93 Score
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women 1/9/2005
is it true a women, can get a guy a lot faster.than a guy can
get a women .i wonder why.
3 Comments, 101 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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Real????? 1/7/2005
What are people really looking for. It seems to me that a
great deal of the people on here want to look at profiles
or have you go to their site or somethign like that.
<br>
Where are the real people who want to meet. are they all in
another state? If so What State?
<br>
I thought that Florida was the loses state when it came to
sex.
<br>
Any ways enough of ...
1 Comments, 87 Views,
14 Votes
,1.38 Score
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Can there be trust 1/7/2005
Ive been through alot of shit with a women, and i dont no if
i can build any trust she fooled around on me twice but i still
love her what should i do?
12 Comments, 288 Views,
52 Votes
,1.99 Score
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trust love, and desires 1/5/2005
how many of you can truely say that you trust your mate{whether
2 women, 2 men, or a man and woman} 100% all the time? in this
day and age, the ones who do get married, often go in it
saying well if it doesn't work we will get divorced.thats
not the right way to plan your future.now matter who it is
the sooner they both realize that at time when you äre"you
are wrong.and sometimes you ...
3 Comments, 66 Views,
14 Votes
,2.98 Score
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What to say, and not to say, in your profile 1/4/2005
I read so many profiles that turn me off that I thought I'd
give some advise. First, be truthful, even if it might turn
some people off. Do not lie about your age, weight, or marital/
relationship status. The "do unto others"
idea applies here; you expect that when you read a profile,
the information is correct, so be that in your profile.
Second, don't be too blatent. We all know that ...
16 Comments, 4001 Views,
609 Votes
,4.14 Score
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Nonresponse to article from the women 1/4/2005
I have been reading articles and have gained alot of good
insight from this category. Thanks everyone. However,
I am curious as to why no woman responded to chappyfu....'s
article of 10/31/04. Could it be that women only want what
they can't have as the saying goes. I feel this was a
good question and was surprised no women responded. I mean
no offense but is it that the nice guy finishes ...
1 Comments, 176 Views,
23 Votes
,2.78 Score
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Respect your way to sex 1/4/2005
The fastest way to make your way into a woman's bedroom
is simple but often overlooked. Respect. Respect can come
in a variety of ways: being patient and polite, paying for
dinner and a movie and maintaining proper distance. Mirror
her movements. When she turns to you, turn to her. If she's
hands-off, so should you be. While it's true that women
generally like men who are initiators, or ...
0 Comments, 20 Views,
10 Votes
,5.58 Score
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what sex is to men 1/4/2005
Well being a man myself I know. What I am going to write here
is so true and to the hart that most men out there will not
like it and or say that it is not true. What fuels a mans sex
drive, more so then just having an orgasim is the feeling
of acceptance trust, and being liked/loved that he gets
when having sex. To a man it is the ultimate desplay he can
get from the other person.
6 Comments, 363 Views,
56 Votes
,4.19 Score
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consequences 1/1/2005
For every action you take, there are consequences. Before
taking action, you should try to figure out as many of the
possible consequences as you can. If you can't accept
the consequences, don't take action.
1 Comments, 538 Views,
28 Votes
,7.55 Score
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Think about what you want first!!! 1/1/2005
OK, it seems like this should be common sense, but nobody
seems to get it. To build a good relationship, you need to
think about what you want out of the relationship and use
that in deciding where to go. If what you want is a no-strings
sexual relationship, then having sex the first time you
meet is no problem. But if you're looking for a long-term,
serious romantic relationship, then ...
4 Comments, 89 Views,
33 Votes
,2.96 Score
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