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Why?   2/10/2004

Why is it that you can't atleast read profiles as a standard member?


0 Comments, 1 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
3 day trial offer   2/8/2004

I have read that a lot of you standard members would like a free 3 day trial offer. That is a good idea but it would not benifit AdultFriendFinder. I know you are asking why! I have been a silver member for 3 months with my subscription running out today. I will not be renewing it. This site is so full of women that link you to pay for porn sites it is unbelievable. Add to that the fact that the guys ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 34 Votes ,7.19 Score
dean7156 86 M
5  Articles
Standard Members are A Waste of Time   2/8/2004

Don't waste your time contacting standard members. Since they can sign up free and don't have to ever visit the site again, you robably won't get a reply. If you do....they will back out just when you get something planned. They also rarely have pictures, don't reply to emails and are playing games. Stay with Silver or Gold for hot chat, meetings, and good sex!


0 Comments, 6 Views, 94 Votes
where to rant   2/8/2004

why is it that so many of you put your replies in the erotic stories or the swinging catagories. these should be for sexy stories not for replys or rants.


0 Comments, 10 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
rm_maytag480 73 C
1  Article
Changes keep a coming   2/7/2004

I do not understand why sometimes I am allowed to view other's profiles to see if I would be interested in joining and meeting them and then NOT being allowed to see the profiles. Can somebody please explain to me what the hell is happening with this site??


0 Comments, 30 Views, 20 Votes ,7.46 Score
so you claim you are a couple?   2/5/2004

there are a few things in life that you can be sure of i've come to learn. taxes, death, and there is always someone on the internet that is totally lying to you to try and get in your pants. i'm sure you have seen it here several times. people to claim to be a model and are uglier that a bulldog's ass, men who pretend to be lesbians because the dirty talk turns them on. the one that ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 27 Votes ,7.13 Score
69iwannafuku69 38 F
6  Articles
lol bout a rave   2/4/2004

i got a lil story that i wanna share its not that good or long but bear with me. last week i went to my first foam rave, one where they spray foam all over the place, it was the best night of my life. people were dancing and all wet and foamy. most where women and they mostly wore white, which i did too. it was the sexiest thing i have ever seen and i was a part of it. i even found a girl ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 20 Votes ,0.57 Score
AdultFriendFinder in the spamming business   2/3/2004

I had not used AdultFriendFinder for a while. I wrote a couple of emails to women last week. The result of this was no answer from the women, but a whole bunch of spam from women who said I contacted them and wanted me to go to a pay porn site to view their profile. Prior to these emails I was not receiving any porn spam. Was this a coincidence, I highly doubt it. This is not the first time that my ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 43 Votes ,9.43 Score
One Woman who Does respond to Emails!   2/2/2004

I have read through alot of the articles listed on here, and I can understand the guys complaining about women who do not respond to mail. But amoung all those women, you will find those who do respond... <br> Being a standard member is hard at times, we are only allowed to reply to mail, and only allowed 3 per day! I personally recieve more than 10+ emails per day, and cant ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 66 Votes ,9.08 Score
Male piercings   2/1/2004

Now, don't get me wrong, I've gone to some of the body modification websites and some of the stuff guys do to their bodies is really quite gross. However, ladies if you ever get the chance to be with a man that has a genital, and by that I mean dick, piercing...DO IT!! My partner likes to watch me with other men on occassion..so one nite we invite this guy over and come to find out, he's ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
looking for another bi couple...   1/31/2004

apparrently even in the wide world of the internet, finding other bi or bi curious couples is not so easy of a task. it seems that there are so many couples that want to swap, watch, have an extra involved but few couples that want to have another couple for some good old fashioned guy on guy and girl on girl action. of the few that are around it further seems like the only ones that ...


1 Comments, 58 Views, 8 Votes ,5.80 Score
rm_4karen 47 C
3  Articles
lets be real   1/30/2004

enough with the fake women with their intentions of hooking up, and then bailing on the last minute and then never hearing from them again like they fell off the face of the planet. Enough with the couples listing themselves as women when they really are a couple, and wont play alone. If you are married or in a relationship, and you want your bf/husband to participate, include him on the ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
Sick of it   1/30/2004

I'm sick and tired of trying to use this site! Every single time I go to send a potential friend an email with my profile and pic attached, it takes forever to upload everything. That little blue status bar just creeps along. Then when it finally does get to the end, the page goes blank, and the ever so popular "Web Page Not Responding" pops up. Every Single Time!!!! Don't bother clicking ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
Get a new monkey to pick which articles to post ! !   1/29/2004

What the hell goes on in the mind of the people in charge of choosing which of these articles to post to the website? I've spent a lot of time on some in the past and they never appeared on the site! I even figured out a way to use the different responses as answers to popular questions that would've been a lot of fun & help! And you could've seen the results immediately and as weeks went ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
The Monogamy Myth   1/28/2004

Society teaches us that sex, love, and marriage are inseparable and hence we should be monogamous. Indeed, the popular euphemism for having sex is, “making love”. To be sure, sex within a loving marriage is very special, but are sex, love, and marriage really inseparable? Society teaches us to answer “yes” without thinking. Stop and think about it for a moment ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
WHY CANT YOU MARRIED MEN -- READ????????   1/28/2004

I seem to attract the losers-- the ones on im's who REFUSE or do not care if my profile practically screams: NO MARRIED men . One just now called me '' a nasty cunt '', Oh imagine that eh? lol!!!! Straight from the wroremongers mouth. Going home to the wife and doing her after he has been lying --- and the little.LOSER has the NERVE to call ME that?????? ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
E-mailing on AdultFriendFinder is like waiting for cement to set   1/27/2004

If your idea of fun is watching cement harden or counting ants or staring out the window all day then you will just love trying to send an e-mail or reading profiles or rating photos on AdultFriendFinder. This has to be the worst and slowest system on the planet. Wake up AdultFriendFinder! Your system is now worse than useless. I WON'T RENEW.


0 Comments, 1 Views, 7 Votes ,5.33 Score
Foreign Language?   1/27/2004

Why are there so many foreign language questions on the question list? I thought this was a forum for english speaking people. Who determines the questions that are used here? It gives one second thoughts about a membership here.


0 Comments, 11 Views, 4 Votes ,0.14 Score
Giant1966 57 M
18  Articles
Why the confusion!   1/27/2004

As a member of AdultFriendFinder for awhile now, all I can say is this forum works somewhat good, I扉e been in contact with a few people here, but mostly I see is the single women looking for a boyfriend/future husband, couples mostly looking for single women, the persons looking for boyfriends, and the single men, who are mostly here to get their freak on, no long lasting relationship, being left out ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_hotlips710 53 C
5  Articles
sue city   1/26/2004

hey want to make a fast quid (buck) or two well its quite easy. its spreading from the states and its called sue anyone anything and any time, yep its that easy. hmm let me think i cut my finger open on a letter today who should i sue?the postman or the sender, a branch fell off a tree hit my foot sue the owner, fall over sue them, walk in to a brick wall yep u guessed it sue the bastards. ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
hotlady4funCO 55 F
4  Articles
Great Sex in the mountains   1/26/2004

I meet a guy off of this site who was very inexperioenced sexually however... we really hti it off in bed he turned out to be the best lover I ever had. We have had sex in so many places esoically teh moutains and outdoors. I never thought one man coudl totally satify me sexually until him.


0 Comments, 14 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
sexlovers2266 46 C
6  Articles
Guys   1/22/2004

Why is it that guys do not listen on this site!!! I realize that everyone is after the same thing, and that is fine, but why can't they respect other peoples wishes and pay attention to profiles before they respond. I realize I'm an attractive female, and guys will notice me, but they are not what I am after, as it clearly states in my profile. I can't count the number of times I have ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
sexlovers2266 46 C
6  Articles
People who don't want to meet   1/22/2004

Why is it that everyone is supposed to be on here to find friends........but when it comes down to it, nobody wants to dive in and actually meet. It's fine if you're just looking around, not really sure what you want to do. However, if that is the case, then please state that in your profile, it would avoid a lot of confusion. I believe that if everyone would just be straight forward from ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Re The BBW's   1/21/2004

Granted everyone is intilted to there own thought's but why be such an ass about things that you have no control over?????? First you say that BBW's have inflated egos and are haters?????WHAT PROBLEMS DO YOU HAVE.....first I am a BBW, yes, I am and I dont have a inflated ego and I have no reason to hate......why hate when I am happy with who I am and who I have(in my life) ......let's see ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
rm_nasf 41 M
1  Article
Do females enjoy oral sex   1/18/2004

A question that has confounded men for as long as time itself Do women like oral sex <br> Help us out ladies


4 Comments, 60 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
Winks...   1/17/2004

If you are not a standard member, why wink? Why not simply contact someone? Also, winking at a standard member is uselss because standard members can't email you from a wink unless you've got the option that standard members can contact you. Come on... we're not in 5th grade. Reach out and touch someone, just do it through an email first.


0 Comments, 8 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
dean7156 86 M
5  Articles
Women piss me off!   1/17/2004

Why is it that many women will fuck our brains out before we marry them, and then after a few years decide sex is just something they don't want anymore? That is why there are so many married men looking for something other than jackin off themselves. You women drive us to another sexual partner. Another thing that pisses me off, is the number of listings that don't want to have an ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
Response to Cheaters   1/16/2004

It's very telling when people vote that they don't like what someone says. Even though that person has made an excellent argument. You know why people don't like it? Because the truth hurts and they don't want to be reminded of what a schmuck they are for cheating on their significant others. But the biggest reason people stay in crappy marriages, is because they would rather be with ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
Re: "Cheaters"   1/16/2004

What most people call, "cheating, " I call, "seeking." Certainly, I can't speak for men and women in other cultures/countries, but we bring this phenomenon on ourselves by the poor choices we make. I opine here under the assumption that the author of the "Cheaters" rant assumes that monogamy is a "must." <br> Given that assumption, let's look at what is going on. First, most ...


2 Comments, 36 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
re: Photos   1/16/2004

"For those out there not willing to trade/show pics.....Hmmmm....Something to hide?? or shy? Tell me how a person is to converse with words when there is no face behind those words? submitted on 1/8/2004 by 2sexycanadians" <br> To answer the above: I don't give my photo out unless I am really going to meet someone. It's for my own safety. I wouldn't join a site that makes ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 98 Votes ,8.29 Score