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letsgetbizy2 60 M
1  Article
I thought this was an adult sex/swingers site, am I wrong?   11/1/2003

I'm a busy 30 something, straight male. I joined and paid for a premium membership to find women that for whatever reason wanted sex (no strings attatched/a fuck buddy/ or swinging with couples). But, this site has become (so it seems) just another blah blah internet personals site with all these people looking for "the perfect man/woman". I have found more often than not, that, the women ...


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Answer to guys tell me why.   10/31/2003

If the guy got into a fight in the bar, he is obviously a total dirt bag. First date and he gets himself into a fight, what a looser. Loose this asshole and find yourself a decent man not a hotheaded looser.


0 Comments, 25 Views, 0 Votes
makeusmile987 56 M
1  Article
someone U thought U could trust..   10/31/2003

Do U ever get really mad when someone lies right to ur Face...Someone U trust and care for and because other people r Jealous of U they lie to get the person U care for mad at U?? It's not a very good feeling Huh? It's so funny how a additude can be a million bucks one day and not worth a penny the next....


0 Comments, 2 Views, 0 Votes
Sirius5500 60 M
4  Articles
RE: STAY IN YOUR OWN BACKYARD   10/30/2003

I'm a bi guy and my ad says I'm looking for couples where the guy is bi. I can't tell you how many responses I've received from married guys who want to play with me one-on-one. When I check out their profiles, 99% of them have stated they were looking for some one-on-one with women. Nothing at all mentioned about fooling around with men, and you would assume they were 100% hetero. I can ...


0 Comments, 90 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
Giant1966 57 M
18  Articles
Around in Circles!   10/30/2003

I have noticed with AdultFriendFinder, couples are looking mostly for single women, single women are mostly looking for boyfriends/future husbands, and men like myself, looking for fun and excitment, are left out in the cold, so to speak.If I am not mistaken, on the opening web site page for AdultFriendFinder, it states "sex and swingers", which I think it means adults looking for sexual adventures, or maybe I am ...


0 Comments, 0 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_THUNDER20032 54 M
1  Article
Women you really should read this.   10/30/2003

Hello. I have been on AdultFriendFinder for 8 months now and can't believe how the women act on this site. First off I have sent out 150 e-mails to women and have gotten 20 responces back. Now I am considered a very good looking man so I know it is not that. I send pics with every e-mail and my e-mails are always detailed out explaining exactly what I am looking for. I give them my alternate e-mail ...


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Auto response   10/30/2003

I am very sorry to say that the experience on this site has ended up being a major let down. I have spent hours writing emails that I sent out to see what kind of response I would get. These were well written in many forms to capture different styles of people and all I have received from 40 emails were auto responses, half of which are asking for a picture, which was included. My letters ...


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big or small penis-so what   10/29/2003

It really doesn't matter that much how big your penis is. You gotta know how to work it, that is just as important. I'm below that average of 5.5 but i always get the girl off. And if it's a hard spot to get, you just gotta lick it before you stick it.


0 Comments, 19 Views, 59 Votes ,6.65 Score
Re: Lick my nipples... please   10/28/2003

I agree with you I Love for a man to be really gentle with my nipples... What is with these guys twisting, biting and pinching our nipples.. Just because the last woman liked it doesnt mean I will like it.. MEN PLEASE ASK FIRST before you start playing with our nipples... Women will appreciate it more


0 Comments, 68 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Men on AdultFriendFinder Need to KNOW!!!!!!!!!!   10/28/2003

What you gentlemen who pay good money to get solicited by cam web ho's should be enlightened about is the fact that AdultFriendFinder has NOW changed it where the standard members can NO LONGER VIEW PROFILES!!!! Yep thats right! NOT even the ones in our inboxes!!! We cant SEARCH or add to hotlist or invite to network! Only in the take forever browse mode! FUCK THAT!! For one the majority of you dont post ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
POINTS?!!!   10/28/2003

I would like to know how the hell to earn those points???? I HAVE uploaded pics, I HAVE uploaded voice intro, I HAVE written articles, I HAVE replied to articles, I HAVE voted on articles, I HAVE registered at another stupid site, I HAVE voted on stupid assed questions, I HAVE done the damn dine.com , I DO respond to members but I USED to view them but cant anymore!!! SO why the hell am I ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 0 Votes
Dickhed 70 M
1  Article
Re: Trucks   10/27/2003

Ok you're right that I'm not a tough guy, nor do I play one on television, but I did sleep in a Holiday Inn Express last night! I drive one of those terrible V8 powered pickup trucks. Mine only gets 8 miles per gallon at 125 mph. Try doing that in your Pasat while hauling a 6 foot sofa, a bookcase and a 'coon dog! Oh and by the way it pulls .89 gees on the skidpad and stops from 70 mph ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 18 Votes ,5.99 Score
Rants   10/26/2003

Have a good rant at each other if you must but always make up afterwards.


0 Comments, 14 Views, 14 Votes ,2.66 Score
RE: Pathetic ; MEN LISTEN UP   10/26/2003

You go Sister!!! I totally agree with you...this is really pathetic that we can't even view a profile. If we could send one email a day, when we get 5-10 emails a day, the way to decide was to view the profile and take that info into account and then respond. Now we can't even do that! MEN, listen up here...this site will be full of angry, frustrated guys who will NEVER get a response ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 69 Votes ,9.44 Score
Do's and Don'ts - yes, guys, you can get responses   10/25/2003

I wasn't going to add anything to this debate, but I've had pretty good luck (at least from what I read in this column) receiving responses to my emails from the ladies. First of all, learn to spell; emails with gross mispelling make you look like an uneducated jerk. Secondly, learn to write an English sentence; I don't know how many women have responded to me simply because they could ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 105 Votes ,9.30 Score
eaglemaster01 41 M
11  Articles
Why cant men scratch?   10/25/2003

When I was in high school every now and then I would scratch or adjust myself. Then there were the women that would say that that was wrong and that it was impolite to do so. Of course I did it when I tought nobody was looking and under my desk. So after a while I began to ask out loud why they were looking at my crotch in the first place. This would of course emabarass them. That was the ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 23 Votes ,3.13 Score
Answering your E/mail.....Always? ? ?   10/24/2003

We are somewhat new to this site, and ALWAYS, ALWAYS, used to answer E/M.........And believe that it is the courtious thing to do...Now here comes the .."but"...but when YOU have taken the time to review YOUR thoughts, and have taken YOUR time to put those thoughts into a sequence that is clear to anyone who takes the time to read it, ....and, they disreguard YOUR info......THEY DONT ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 18 Votes ,3.40 Score
carnivore69us 54 M
22  Articles
No Responses - additional commentary   10/22/2003

I too am a long-time paying member of AdultFriendFinder of the male persuasion, and like many of you, I have been a bit disgruntled by the lack of response, numerous autoreplies, or redirects to paid-for sites from other members with whom I initiate contact. At first it bothered me, and while the argument pertaining to common courtesy still applies to Gold and Silver members, or those with whom you've ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 16 Votes ,6.51 Score
Giant1966 57 M
18  Articles
Re:why women are so mean   10/21/2003

To reply, I believe women are not mean, they just know how to get what they want, and when they find a chump of a guy, thats what they do.Most people like "nice people" because they can be walked on, but once you show some backbone and show someone that you will not be a chump, then they will look at you different.Myself, its has nothing to do about being nice, only to give a person their ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 10 Votes ,4.38 Score
intuition897 46 C
3  Articles
RE: Men Without Pics   10/20/2003

I completely agree! The first thing that someone sees when you first meet them, is their face. It's that first impression. PLUS! It's going to be the one thing that, IF you meet them, you're going to be looking at all night. This goes for men and women both; I can understand for the sake of discretion not posting your facial pics on the main page of your profile, but setting up a ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 17 Votes ,2.56 Score
intuition897 46 C
3  Articles
And One More Thing About Pics...   10/20/2003

I don't know about all the other folks on here, but when anyone (single male or otherwise!) sends me a network invitation and they don't have a damn thing in their network to exchange for the privelege of seeing our more personal photos, I am somewhat offended. That just says to me "PIC COLLECTOR!!" I don't think so, people! If we wanted everyone to see the pics that were in our album, ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 16 Votes ,7.39 Score
rm_lgliang 41 M
9  Articles
Re: Pics of Dicks   10/19/2003

I agree about men who's sole profile images are of nothing more than potshots of their peckers. I'm irate too that so many of the male kind have degenerated to this level, or even lower, just to get the attention of the ladies. When you go out to meet someone, the first most identifiable thing you see if their face, so unless you overtly horny fake studs have a nose as long or as huge as ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 44 Votes ,8.73 Score
rm_FiyahMan911 44 M
1  Article
Aggressive Women.   10/18/2003

Just a quick question. Although we all know what this site is for, are some of the men here kinda hmmmm I wouldn't go as far as disappointed. Ok maybe I will, with the lack of female responses. I mean I for one like a woman who knows what she wants and goes out there for it. Is it fair that all women gotta do up in here is sit and wait for the men to come running??? I say HAYULL no. I ...


0 Comments, 81 Views, 29 Votes ,6.65 Score
dewain28 50 M
1  Article
What do women want??????   10/17/2003

I have a lot of female friends and all of they "say" they want is a nice stable man who is caring and a good listener. Then these same females go out with some of the biggest jerks around. Then myself "The Friend" sits and listen to the crying when they get there hearts broken. All of them say "I wish i could find a guy like you". Now all I have left to say is " OPEN YOUR EYES I AM RIGHT ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 12 Votes ,5.98 Score
Men without pics!!!!!!!!   10/16/2003

You know I read about how you men get all uppity over not getting a reply back. Well I can tell most of you why!! Wanna know?!! Well If you dont have a pic posted and then you respond to an ad wtf do you think is going to happen??? Do you REALLY expect us to reply to somone who wont take the time to submit a pic? And furthermore you dont even fill out your profiles. I check theses things! ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 27 Votes ,4.50 Score
rm_beamer47 68 M
9  Articles
leartn how to spell   10/10/2003

Wouldn`t it be nice, if when writing a story they could spell first, it really distracts from the story if the spelling is horrible


0 Comments, 18 Views, 34 Votes ,7.73 Score
Gemphyre 60 M
0  Articles
Another double-standard of sex   10/3/2003

The double standard of words and their uses isn't the only one around. There is also a double standard about the start of a relationship. <br> To illustrate this, let's look at an example. Let's take two people, one male, one female. They are both the same age (25, for the sake of argument), both attractive to a similar degree, with similar interests, opinions, education, ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 82 Votes ,8.84 Score
Please be Honest   10/1/2003

There is nothing worse than showing up for a first meeting and seeing that the person that you have been emailing/corresponding with is a total fake. 1) Post a REAL photo. My God, when you walk in and you are looking for somebody with a full head of blond hair and the person you are meeting has a receding hairline and brown hair, how can you get mad when we walk away. 2) Don't make a ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 63 Votes ,9.68 Score
InPursuitOfFun 39 M
0  Articles
Sex's double-standard   9/30/2003

I'm so sick of it. <br> If a guy can get it, he's a "blooy legend!" (as we say in Australia). If he can't get it, he's unlucky. <br> If a girl has sex, she's a slut. If she doesn't, she's a prude. <br> Girls can't win. And I feel even the most liberated women still feel uneasy about the stigma that is attached to girls having casual sex, or numerous ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 49 Votes ,8.14 Score
rm_axion327 32 M
0  Articles
In the grip of fear and paranoia   9/30/2003

Every time I enter my car at night time, I always make sure to check the backseat of my car for murdering local street-bums seeking shelter. They could be hiding back there with a fire axe. Then he would wait quietly, waiting for that moment when the lighting is right and you might catch a glimpse of him in your rear view window before he lunges at you from behind swinging the axe with ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 14 Votes