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sexycowboy24 39 M
9  Articles
Clean   6/28/2005

I love AdultFriendFinder but any suggestions for finding out if a member is "clean"?


1 Comments, 178 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
loveitlickedhard 45 F
8  Articles
How long do you wait   6/28/2005

how long do you know a person before you trust them to not use a condom?


4 Comments, 335 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
loveitlickedhard 45 F
8  Articles
For those who love anal   6/28/2005

Do you like it with or without protection?


2 Comments, 402 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
loveitlickedhard 45 F
8  Articles
what do you think   6/28/2005

Who hates to use condoms more men or women?


1 Comments, 207 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
okiecouple4fun4 55 C
10  Articles
Advice   6/25/2005

If you had a friend that you have been close to for a long time and you know everything there is to know about them, and you got drunk or just decided to take the friendship further would you wear a condom or trust that they or you are clean?


1 Comments, 188 Views, 9 Votes ,1.50 Score
rm_101101001 58 C
75  Articles
The end of STDs'.   6/22/2005

I read several pages of postings form the safe sex postings. Why does no one speak of the last time that they went for HIV testing or testing period for that matter? <br> How many of you have been repeatedly tested for HIV, say once a month for three months from different labs? <br> My husband and I are both HIV negative. We got tested before having sex even with ...


4 Comments, 182 Views, 12 Votes ,3.33 Score
thirsty4sex2u 48 M
2  Articles
How much safe sex is possible with a stranger   6/13/2005

I had sex with a stranger gal while I was out of station for business purpose. I met her near a beach and recognized she's willing to go with anyone to satisfy their lust for money. I called her and she agreed. Since I hadn't got a room she suggested to have the intercourse on the backside of a shop. Shop had been closed that evening. I realised that I haven't got any modes for ...


3 Comments, 569 Views, 21 Votes ,3.00 Score
MathiasA 64 M
3  Articles
Make Sure!!   6/6/2005

Recently on a long weekend trip to MTL some of us ended up in a club which was rather out there (in a good way). dance club up stairs downstairs the caverns. Your given a lock and key for a locker because clothes are not allowed, 50 person jaccuzzi, pool tables, bar area, private/semi-private or out in the open areas and boy are they used. but one man and woman stood out. This bozo tried to ...


1 Comments, 336 Views, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score
properboitellye 32 M
2  Articles
condoms   6/5/2005

anyone else find regular condoms too small and tight but king sized ones too big?!


2 Comments, 213 Views, 7 Votes
Do you have safe sex   6/2/2005

It is good to know the person you are think about having sexuall encounters with has practiced safe sex. With the sexually transmitted disease's in the world today noone wants to be in fear of what if they had this or maybe this, It is a good idea to get regularly checked for your own benifit and for the other person as well. It doesnt take much time to have a test done and if it saves you ...


2 Comments, 330 Views, 32 Votes ,5.58 Score
rm_Aiwaloki 50 M
2  Articles
What is a better system?   6/1/2005

I been dating one women for a while and I used the pull out method. We have tried birth control pills and an IUD. I have been fixed, but the tests showed the operation was a failure. Is the sponge any good? How does it work?


0 Comments, 250 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
FIRST DATES   5/29/2005

FIRST DATES OR HOOKUPS CAN BE A BIT SHAKY AT FIRST UNTIL BOTH PARTICIPANTS GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER AND FEEL COMFORTABLE ENOUGH TO RELAX AND GO WITH THE FLOW. A NICE BODY MASSAGE IS A GOOD ICE BREAKER THAT ALLOWS THE BODY TO RELAX AND UNWIND.


1 Comments, 186 Views, 15 Votes ,2.52 Score
donnydaduchi 46 M
3  Articles
condom is key   5/28/2005

Condoms are very important today is sex, an people act like aids is not out there protect yourself


1 Comments, 190 Views, 12 Votes ,2.27 Score
thebomb2112 55 M
7  Articles
condoms and myths   5/28/2005

For the guys who think sex is not as good or dosn't feel the same when you were a condom, I think its all in your mind, I mean, they got so many different kinds of condoms now that its allmost impossible not to find one that is too your likeing. One time I was getting my dick sucked by this girl and I didn't even know she slid on a rubber intill I shot my load and it did't get in her face. ...


2 Comments, 200 Views, 14 Votes ,4.26 Score
PennStateMTB210 40 M
1  Article
VIRGINITY   5/26/2005

Is it a bad thing for a 21 year old male to remain a virgin? I seem to be made fun of for it all the time.


5 Comments, 361 Views, 15 Votes ,3.59 Score
condoms   5/20/2005

ive tried the polyurethane condoms, and i have to say they are much better than latex when it comes to sensation. what are the stats on their effectiveness? does anyone know? are they better? worse? the same?


0 Comments, 170 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
rm_silversoul7 41 M
1  Article
Herpes protection   5/18/2005

I know that condoms can protect against most STDs like gonnorhea or syphilis, but what about herpes or HPV(genital warts), which spread by mere contact without any exchange of body fluid? If someone has these things in their genital area, they can spread it to you even if you wear a condom. Is there any way(other than abstinence) to protect against this? Is there some way you can tell if ...


1 Comments, 421 Views, 11 Votes ,4.85 Score
N33dsl0tsofsex 38 M
2  Articles
Condoms   5/16/2005

Condoms arent always reliable, but to make it extra safe, wear two... it may take away some of the pleasure, but anything is better then nothing


1 Comments, 183 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
shelby6655 46,1946 C
4  Articles
Bare backing! why?   5/15/2005

M yself and my partner are very sexually active people. even if its not with other people we both have a strict view on safety in the bedroom. Its not that we are prude or narrow minde but we have been amazed by stories of what has become known as barebacking. We know of people (not people we would consider for a sexual relationship) who speak openly about and even at times boastfully of ...


4 Comments, 627 Views, 28 Votes ,4.47 Score
Jeff26651 46 M
1  Article
Safest Sex Solution   5/12/2005

Abstinence, refraining from sexual intercourse, is a common practice all over the world. Historically, abstinence has probably been the single most important factor in preventing pregnancy. Women and men of all ages deliberately choose to abstain. Abstinence is a normal, common, and acceptable alternative to sexual intercourse. <br> Although some use only sexual behavior to ...


2 Comments, 92 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
rm_BieastTXm 44 M
1  Article
Who hates rubbers?   5/3/2005

I was recently with a woman who said she prefers it without a rubber. Is this something women think about? I have never before heard this from a woman and wanted to know if other women fell the same way. I always thought it was supposed to be the guy who hates rubbers.


3 Comments, 456 Views, 21 Votes ,2.63 Score
rm_killerk0ck 39 M
2  Articles
why refuse to play it safe?   5/2/2005

So many ppl these days are trying to bypass safe sex. I am just thinking why would u do this? Your body is really all that u have, it's what no one can take away from u. So why would u wanna take it away from yourself by having unprotected sex


1 Comments, 63 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
doesnt safe sex reduce sexual pleasure   4/29/2005

safe sex is great, but when you have to put protection(like condoms)it actually reduces sexual pleasure(due to not full contact of organs) thats why being catious with sex is much better than wearing protection, dont you think?


1 Comments, 176 Views, 15 Votes
Herpes: What's HSV1 and HSV2?   4/28/2005

There seems to be a lot of misunderstanding on this site about just exactly what HSV1 and 2 are. <br> Both are common forms of Herpes. Now, most people would say "I don't have Herpes!" and likely "I need to avoid people with Herpes!" <br> Here's the deal plain and simple. The Centers for Disease Control in the United States estimates that 75% of adults in the US have one ...


4 Comments, 510 Views, 25 Votes ,7.00 Score
hatter001 51 M
1  Article
Its just this simple   4/27/2005

How many times have you heard about someone that is sexually active getting HIV? too many times in my oppinion. People need to use a little common sense when sex is involved. We all know that sex without a condom feels better, but catching HIV from unprotected sex will only give you blisters on your hand in the long run. whpo wants to have sex with someone that is HIV positive, especially ...


1 Comments, 172 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
Safe Sex is Difficult to Achieve   4/22/2005

I practice safe sex by using a condom when I am having intercourse or anal sex. But how do you achieve a level of safe sex when you are a very oral lover like me. I am not satisfied if I have not orally serviced a women to multiple orgasms, and on good days to the point where she squirts. I love doing that. I love the feeling of making her body squirm and tremble with pleasure ...


5 Comments, 557 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
how do you handle stalkers?   4/15/2005

What if you have osmeoen that keeps e-mailing you, you don;t want ot block them but are just not interested and they still don;t get the hint?


1 Comments, 81 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
is it ok to ask for condom use   4/14/2005

What do you all think about using a condom to give head?


1 Comments, 255 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rimming preps   4/4/2005

in getting ready for play, i wash everywhere thoroughly. some people are interested in rimming. seems that i wash and wash but i always feel that it is not enough and im going to be embarrassed once they go down there. should i use a strong fragrance soap or wash on top of being spotless?


0 Comments, 239 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
Safe Sex   4/1/2005

this is a bit of a misnomer. Safe sex would only be between 2 virginal people in a monogamous relationship. Condoms decrease the risk of transmitting (or receiving) sexually transmitted diseases. They do not eliminate the risk. The major problem with them, other than breaking, coming off in the act, or bad quality control, is that they do not prevent the spread of human papaloma virus ...


0 Comments, 143 Views, 10 Votes ,5.58 Score