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Security   7/9/2004

Before a meeting, always find out as much as possible about the person beforehand, relay the info to a friend, let a friend know when, where, and how long you plan to meet with the individual, if you end up elsewhere, call and leave a message to let the friend know where and also to give descriptions etc. Always safe than sorry especially with all the crazies that are lurking about.


0 Comments, 7 Views, 30 Votes ,8.44 Score
Please have a back up plan when meeting   6/30/2004

In addition to meeting at a public place (a bookstore that serves coffee/tea/latte is a good idea) and telling someone you trust where you will be and when you should be expected home, have this friend telephone you on your cellular phone at an appointed time. Agree on a code word so he/she will know everything is all right. Another word so he/she will know to call back in half an hour ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 74 Votes ,8.70 Score
rm_michael9712 69 M
2  Articles
Nigeria Scams   6/25/2004

i answered a few personal ads. Someone instant messaged me. she wanted me to receive items and send them to charities in Nigeria. I gave my home address. i received some packages but figured that they were purchased with stolen credit cards. The bottom line is it best not to communicate with anyone in Nigeria.


0 Comments, 24 Views, 39 Votes ,7.23 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: Safety questions: getting to know them and discretion?   6/22/2004

You can give people info about yourself, just be careful of what you do tell them. For example, do not tell someone your address, also the people I have met have NO clue what my last name is. As for those that need to be discreet, I have met 1, we met at a local restaurant in my city for lunch. Most people who need to be discreet will not meet within their own city.


0 Comments, 20 Views, 43 Votes ,7.17 Score
Re: PLEASE HAVE A BACK UP PLAN WHEN MEETING   6/20/2004

I read the article and was horrified that some of my female friends have been lucky enough not to come across such an encounter. Some have been too trusting with a first meeting at the places they went to. After reading this article I fully understand why 1 of my contacts insists on viewing a web cam. Ladies, if you have not read this article posted on 5/10/04, please do so. I thank the ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 36 Votes ,8.59 Score
Re: Safety questions: getting to know them and discretion?   6/20/2004

33Mychael hopefully I can give a decent answer to your questions. Getting to know someone doesn't involve giving out personal information like home address. Focusing on interests and type of personality is usually a safe way to keep personal information out of a conversation. Don't give names of places you hang out at and keep specifics out of the conversation when chatting or ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 21 Votes ,6.22 Score
Be Ready!   6/15/2004

Do you know your plans. Be sure U do. <br> Fighting is close to dating, ..If you know what sex is, your gonna have a hard time saying "No, I know what I'm after." So give me what I want or I'm Outtie." <br> Don't do whats not on your mind!


0 Comments, 14 Views, 22 Votes ,5.41 Score
A stalker   6/9/2004

Ladies, <br> Ever come across a man who refused to take "NO" for an answer? I have. As a matter of fact, I came across a man in chat, upper midwest room, while talking to my buddies. This man was ordering me to talk about "sex" (just with him) what I liked, what I wanted so on and so on. During this badgering session, he constantly reminded me that AdultFriendFinder was a sex site, and ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 92 Votes ,9.01 Score
playfulpets4us 55 C
2  Articles
Safety & Porn   5/31/2004

I find it distressing that viturally none of the major porn film studios insist on their actors wearing condoms. Only one or two studios make it mandatory. Sheesh...Would a contruction worker show up at the site without his hardhat?? The reason most studios refuse to have their actors wear condoms is because "gonzo" sex sells much better in the international market than safe and ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 83 Votes ,8.06 Score
onlyhuman84 36 M
0  Articles
Remember : BE CAREFUL   5/20/2004

One of the sad truths of this world is that there ARE people out there who would delight in causing harm to their fellow man. Fortunately there are ways to protect yourself. When meeting someone for the first time, always make sure to meet on neutral ground, like a restaurant or cafe. Also, if you hit off with the person, don't rush off to the nearest hotel room, especially one of your ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 78 Votes ,8.06 Score
hi   5/20/2004

SERIOUS INQUIRES ONLY 23 YEAR OLD FEMALE FUN AND ENTERGETIC (HAVE A HARD TIME FINDING SOMEONE TO KEEP UP. UP TO THE CHALLENGE?) BROWN HAIR AND GREEN EYES GOOD LOOKING not looking for a relationship just sex nothing but sex all day long if interested let me know <br> Looking For: Men for Erotic Chat or Email, 1-on-1 sex, Discreet Relationship or Misc. Fetishes ...


0 Comments, 66 Views, 74 Votes ,5.07 Score
Be SAFE when meeting a one nighter!   5/19/2004

If you are planning on meetine someone you dont know or have just met on the internet, some good saftey tips: <br> 1. Leave your plans with a trusted friend. Even if you do not want to go into details, just tell SOMEONE where you are going and the time you expect to be back. <br> 2. Charge your cell phone! <br> 3. Bring along a good # if you need a ride or ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 114 Votes ,9.51 Score
I did the stupidest thing   5/18/2004

I had a few e mail exchanges that went well. I planned a trip to visit my new buddy. We talked on the net about the possibility that we might or might not like each other and discussed what might happen if we didnt. The conclusion was- we would enjoy each others company anyway. Well, I totally wasnt attracted to the guy. And he really put on the moves. He even tried to make me feel guilty ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 128 Votes ,9.23 Score
basic security   5/16/2004

the internet is a wonderful place to meet people for some very wonderful experiences. however, until you have met that person in a public place, it is a good idea to keep your information to yourself there are many sites that, with a person's full name and date of birth, you can get their address, telephone number, and sometimes for a fee a LOT more information. some of them not ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 42 Votes ,6.93 Score
scammers   5/10/2004

never give any personal info online. too many scammers out there trying to get over on you.


0 Comments, 4 Views, 31 Votes ,5.83 Score
i want to meet a real woman want sex   5/7/2004

my user name is my mobiel nomber i love to fuck lovely woman and need to loved i want any kind of age my user name is my mobiel nomber i love to fuck lovely woman and need to loved i want any kind of age white or black just lovely woman white or black just lovely my user name is my mobiel nomber i love to fuck lovely woman and need to loved i want any kind of age white or black just ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 68 Votes
Being safe is easier than being lucky   5/2/2004

Sexual predators are not a far-removed threat. They are real, and you must not even dare think that it'll 'happen to someone else'. Chances are, one day you could be 'someone else'. Men are not excluded from this, heterosexual or homosexual. Everyone should be careful. Some of the things you can do to protect yourself are: <br> 1. Tell one or more friends where you're going to be ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 47 Votes ,8.17 Score
Re: Happliy married...   4/28/2004

There is a difference between thinking and doing. Most of our fantasies should remain fantasies. The taboo is much more of a turn on when it is taboo rather than reality. God knows, happliy married means completely bored sex wise. Being with the same person for years can do that to a person. If you need to think of someone else to orgasm, don't feel bad, everyone does. Look up the Coolidge ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 39 Votes ,5.84 Score
gretretr ghtegtegt ntegrttrtrt   4/27/2004

OK, so you're ready to add an article, quiz, or other text that you feel that our members would love to read - all you need to do is fill out this form. We suggest that you first write the article in your favorite text editor (e.g., Word) and then use "cut and paste" to copy your article in the proper field below. Note: your article must be yours - submitting copyrighted information will ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
Tip for girls   4/21/2004

Never turn your eyes away from your drink, or else some guy may pop in roofies ( drug). Beware, it's more common than you may think.


0 Comments, 10 Views, 43 Votes ,6.86 Score
sevenlong2000 50 M
4  Articles
Choose your partner wisely   4/21/2004

To date safely, choose your partner wisely. Enusre you know some of his/her background before getting laid. Lastly use condom.


0 Comments, 5 Views, 47 Votes ,7.32 Score
Safe sex or no sex   4/21/2004

This is something that can't be said enough. Maybe if enough people say it, it'll sink in.


0 Comments, 30 Views, 30 Votes ,7.36 Score
Falcon40 40 M
9  Articles
Meeting for the first time   4/20/2004

If you are to meet on your first date for the first time; you should meet in a public place where there is lots of people around. Safety in numbers. I wouldnt go to someones place or them come to my place unless i got to know them better on here or on the phone.


0 Comments, 4 Views, 33 Votes ,6.45 Score
Re: Just say no to fat chicks   4/10/2004

First of all the "average" woman is about 10 pounds over weight, not a model or movie star. Most women 35 and above have hips and many a belly. (ever seen a skinny belly dancer??) Most of all, they have experience, sensuality and know how to please a man. You have no idea what you are missing!!


0 Comments, 24 Views, 85 Votes ,7.90 Score
Woman for couple!   4/7/2004

How and where do you bisexual women like to meet with a couple that is interested in being with you after an initial contact?


0 Comments, 3 Views, 21 Votes ,4.49 Score
rm_funwithfems 57 F
7  Articles
drinking   4/3/2004

Haveing spoken with several people who have had some less than desirable experiences, I have the following advice. Women: do not drink any alcohol on a first date. Too much and who knows what can happen, but even a little can easily bring you to a compromising situation.


1 Comments, 30 Views, 31 Votes ,6.02 Score
rm_funwithfems 57 F
7  Articles
RE: How do you know?   3/21/2004

There really is no way to know who the person you are about to meet really is. Many people are married for a several years before they learn who they are married to or what their spouce's personality is like. The key is to think, be smart, and question everything. If you still feel comfortable at that point, then go for it.


1 Comments, 58 Views, 37 Votes ,8.23 Score
RE:Just SAY NO to Fat Chicks   3/13/2004

In reguards to this article........ I feel sorry for any man that feels that a woman that weighs 165 or more is "FAT" and undesireable. You have NO idea what that woman's personality is like and won't because you are so shallow! Your LOSS! and probably her gain....... to NOT put up with YOU!


2 Comments, 51 Views, 89 Votes ,8.47 Score
URfantasyfilled 45 M
8  Articles
Know who you are dealing with   3/6/2004

This is just a reminder to all out there meeting for the first time. It is a crazy world out there, and I hope all of you are taking the right precautions when meeting. My suggestion is to meet in a public place have coffee, or a drink ect.ect. and make sure the person(s) you are seeing for the first time are what you are expecting. If not all you have to do is say "thank you but, this is ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 41 Votes ,8.18 Score
rm_alrhem 40 M
1  Article
...   3/5/2004

Recent problems with regards to ... <br> Recently there are drugs being used in conjunction with rohypnol... a little sterilizer tablet used for horses and other large animals. The problem with this is that not only is there a , but also the sterilizer portion of the tablet not only stops the chances of pregnancy from the , but chances of ever becoming pregnant become incredibly ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 79 Votes ,9.15 Score