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bubb4363 55 M 6  Articles	no thanks   6/30/2010 how hard is it for you to date, the same person, for a time, and every time sex come up, its always no thanks. when do you say good bye. 2 Comments, 59 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
__A_J__ 47 F 9  Articles	Whatever!   6/6/2010 I don't believe a lot of people understand what the two words no thanks means. How many times does a person need to say it? ... 16 Comments, 160 Views, 33 Votes ,5.99 Score
_JKH_ 69 M 858  Articles	Watch it !   5/21/2010 Your life can be changed in a matter of seconds by someone who doesn't even know you yet. ... 3 Comments, 117 Views, 12 Votes ,2.80 Score
_JKH_ 69 M 858  Articles	Credentials!   5/21/2010 Credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.... 2 Comments, 37 Views, 12 Votes ,1.92 Score
nvrgetsenuf 50 F 11  Articles	How Many Times Does A Lady Have to Politely Say No?   5/14/2010 Before she can't just flat out be rude? Have you ever been there? My profile(check it out) is written to weed out the "undesireables." Sometimes it works & sometimes it doesn't. There always has to be one that thinks if he can just get you to say yes to meeting him he can sweet talk you into giving up some of that sweet stuff. You know the one I'm talking about... He writes & ... 8 Comments, 172 Views, 16 Votes ,4.74 Score
_JKH_ 69 M 858  Articles	Worry !   5/12/2010 Most of the stuff people worry about ain't never gonna happen anyway. ... 1 Comments, 31 Views, 10 Votes ,0.60 Score
Ask me for a photo SexyLatinMan2010 61 M 1  Article	Why do people do that?   5/2/2010 I need a little perspective on why people will start chatting and emailing you on here and you seem to get along well ... then you agree to exchange pics and then "POOF" once the woman gets your pic they disappear without a word. I mean I can understand that they get the pic and see that one is not their type ... but is it really all that hard to just say that so there is closure? Why do people ... 8 Comments, 208 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
_JKH_ 69 M 858  Articles	Wondering !   4/29/2010 Sometimes saying, "No thanks, " will have you wondering later on if you were right, and sometimes you'll find out later on from an event, that you made a great decision in saying, "No thanks!" ... 1 Comments, 46 Views, 24 Votes
justlovepussy88 36 M 1  Article	Bi/Gay won't leave you alone?   4/11/2010 Wow I have this issue where I can't get bi/gay guys in my area to stop messaging me about getting some secret head...anyone else have these issues? 1 Comments, 71 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
youngfunguyIL 39 M 6  Articles	Why?   4/5/2010 So this one goes 2 ways. Why do single ladies rule out out young guys on average and... Why why why why why do gays guys think that straight guys want oral? lmao. 3 Comments, 55 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
starbrite 43 F 1  Article	Have fun but be careful   3/21/2010 Coming out of high school I had only had sex a couple of times and at that time I really didn't care for it. How thangs have changed. But the first time I considered having sex with someone that wasn't my boyfriend was with a guy we will call bob. The first time I saw him I got wet and I wanted him so bad. I would lay in my bed at night and cum all over my fingers thinking about him kissing ... 6 Comments, 362 Views, 20 Votes ,4.53 Score
bmarietoo 54 C 5  Articles	strippers   3/14/2010 male half it's been years since i've been but the best way i've found to get rid of strippers who want to table dance for you is to have a line ready. mine have been, "sorry, you look too much like my wife." and "sorry, i'm saving all my money for the massage parlor afterwards". any other good one liners? have some fun. 2 Comments, 113 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
rm_wjb311 38 M 3  Articles	be nice!...or not   2/27/2010 a girl like you, but you are not attracted to her or the fact that she dropped out of high school....so instead of telling her that - you just say " I don't want a relationship at this time". but she is relentless, wanting to hang out as friends. to be blunt, she just isnt getting it. so, maybe not wanting to hurt someones feelings isnt a safe outlet...? 2 Comments, 53 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
tnawood3 54 C 1  Article	Is chivalry still out there?   2/27/2010 I would hope politeness is still alive and well in today's swinging lifestyle..I mean...So many unanswered e-mails...just makes ya wonder how some people are being brought up.? It's not hard to reply to a nice email someone took the time to write. At least this is our take on it. What do you think? We dont respond to nasty emails...or one liners....But a well thought out email goes a long way to ... 3 Comments, 80 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
Adventurer333 56 M 18  Articles	Easier for Women to Say No?   2/22/2010 Is it easier for a woman to say "No thanks" then a man? When meeting for the first coffee, I am not always interested in following through. But I also feel like I can't say no at that point. I have, and it wasn't well received even though I did try to be gentle. I am wondering if the male stereotype comes into play: men don't say no to sex. Women are propositioned more ... 3 Comments, 90 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
crazyshelly87 37 F 1  Article	no thank you   1/11/2010 Hey everyone it's ok to say no thank you. When you do people should respect that. 3 Comments, 62 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
chrisomaha 44 M 11  Articles	when saying no thanks politely doesn't go over   1/8/2010 sometimes it seems like i am very careful to pick my wording in my response, and i am still treated very rudely to someone i didn't pursue in the first place. i try to say things that won't hurt any feelings, stay respectful, and still are firm that i am not interested. i am wondering what everyone else does when this doesn't seem to do the trick and now some rude person won't leave me alone. 2 Comments, 27 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
rm_krisshh81 33 M 14  Articles	Say 'no thanks' the right way   1/7/2010 Overview: It's a good practice to let job candidates know when they haven't gotten the job. Use this sample thanks-but-no-thanks letter to build goodwill with people who may be a better match for future positions. One of the least pleasant aspects of the hiring process is conveying to candidates your decision to pass them over. But if you've decided to eliminate someone from contention ... 5 Comments, 57 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
sdfg20081 55 M 1  Article	I'm not sure how to say it but.... "No Thanks"   12/18/2009 Recently, I received an invitation to a 'party' that included men and women having fun, as we do. The invitation was amazing as it had me down as one of the one kinda-single guys to be there. My arousal peaked as well as my normal paranoias of being discreet. I emailed back that I would be interested and a day later received the location and address. It also included the caveat that i ... 2 Comments, 102 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Ask me for a photo nascar559 54 M 1  Article	Is it better to ignore   12/18/2009 I was just wondering how many people out there, have expressed intrest in someone, who wrote, only to be ignored by the person.Isn't it more polite to kindly say your not intrested, then to ignore the person and leave them hanging? 5 Comments, 119 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
KTP77 46 M 1  Article	Big Girls   12/10/2009 I'm looking for a kind way to walk away from big girls on this site without hurting anyone's feelings. Can someone please offer some advice. 18 Comments, 311 Views, 13 Votes ,3.48 Score
cw101 47 M 2  Articles	being polite but firm   12/9/2009 Well having read a few of the articles - it seems we're all more or less on the same frequency as it were. Ive had quite a few occasions in the past where despite what my profile says - ie in a relationship and not looking to play, a few folks have been rather insistent - Ive found it an exercise in politeness but also firmness. There do seem to be quite a few people for whom no ... 2 Comments, 73 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
anythingoes299 52 C 12  Articles	How do you tell a couple no thanks after meeting them?   12/5/2009 Weve not had to experience this yet because all the couples we played with were great, but how do you tell a couple no after meeting up with them and it's not what you want? 4 Comments, 90 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
notjustonceTN 62 M 1  Article	I know, we've all encountered someone who...   11/29/2009 ... can't take a hint, a direct "no thanks", or even sometimes a baseball bat over the head to understand that you're not interested. Especially the ones that are standard members and can't read profiles, but still can't grasp it when you describe your situation/desires and keep pressing to meet you. Someone needs to design hardware so you can send an electric shock back to someone who ... 4 Comments, 122 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
wantotry74 43 M 8  Articles	respect for the individual   11/4/2009 Lets prove some of these nay Sayers wrong and show that we can be grown ups' and get together for real hook ups.Life's too short for lead on's and game playing.Just be true to others and leave the mind games away from this place.Know one would want to be treated like that, what makes it okay for you to do it to others.Just be yourself, life's too short!! 1 Comments, 29 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
josmith5 61 M 1466  Articles	when just saying no isnt enough...   11/1/2009 Guy: I would go to the end of the world for you! Girl: Yea but would you stay there? Man:is this seat empty? Woman:yes and this one will be too if you sit down! Man:your bodys like a temple Woman:sorry no sevice today. Him: your place or mine You: both, you go to yours, and i will go to mine Sleazy Guyo you come here often? ... 2 Comments, 45 Views, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score
playhouse40 48 C 2  Articles	No Thanks   10/13/2009 How can another person say that they didnt c the sign when a person is no interest n then u shouldnt have 2 hurt some 1 feeling 2 say No Thanks !That person already knows they just dont want 2 accept the facts , no calls, no chat, no time and they cant get the picture mmmmmmmmm They got just leave me alone can they get that Live, Laugh, Love! 2 Comments, 61 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
SoFloTgirl 61 T 8  Articles	Nancy Reagan said it 1st   10/12/2009 Yes she did! 1 Comments, 32 Views, 0 Votes
dirtysexysailor8 28 M 3  Articles	i never say no   9/29/2009 no is not in my vocabulary especially when it comes to sex i will always try it atleast once! it is ok to say no but i just never do! 2 Comments, 78 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
wantotry74 43 M 8  Articles	just say so   9/24/2009 I remember old saying that went something like this:treat others the way you would want to be treated...Life's too short for games---don't lead others on.It's just not cool.A simple "no Thanks" should work just fine... 1 Comments, 48 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score