Never shy or timid. Just a fun and fit male who can appreciate a lovely lady. Are you in the mood for a good red wine followed by a whip creme adventure? Or something even wilder? Very few limits but always a gentleman. Let's see if we can find plenty of reasons to smile. I think dropping everything and changing your longitude every now and then is great for the soul. Not looking to be a player but to find an uncomplicated and comfortable relationship with an attractive woman. By attractive I would hope it includes but is not limited to a woman who is confident, knows who she is, enjoys conversation and is intelligent. Sharing your passion is a given. Creating fantasies and exploring your deepest desires and mine would be perfect. Some things I cannot live without A huge hot water heater: (I take the longest showers known to man), side splitting laughing spurts (come make me laugh and I'm yours), long foreplay (well that's pretty obvious), running shoes (never know when I'll need them), and someone around who makes sure I don't take myself too seriously. My sense of "normal" doesn't correspond to most people's. I'm ridiculously optimistic- I own several pairs of rose colored glasses and I always view the glass as half full! Like to look good, have a firm little butt and can appreciate a woman who has one too. Can be rather kinky at times so be careful what you wish for. If it starts with whip cream and goes on from there that’s a plus. I am also intellectual (too smart for my own good), romantic (read as only occasionally romantic), articulate (talk in full sentences and say more than uh-huh), and love "deep" philosophical discussions - but you shouldn't expect to win in a debate unless I like you. You can tell your problems to me and I'll listen just don't ask me if what you are wearing makes you look fat!!! I'm pretty in touch with myself, working more on it every day. Hopefully you are too. I'm happy with who I am and not looking for someone to correct my many flaws. Hopefully you are too. Already have a mom and certainly not looking for one here. I am a man who is complex and complicated just don't ask me to spell them!!! I am someone who doesn't take myself too seriously. But I look good in suit and tie or jeans and tee shirt. I can handle any pressure packed situation from meeting with the CEO to a deal going bad and still make some off the wall remark that breaks up the whole room and puts everything back on track. I'm just looking for a creative, playful, mutually enjoyable, discrete situation where everyone enjoys themselves. If you're in- smile- don't be shy- write and let the party begin. I'll make sure not to disappoint.

My Ideal Person A seductress, a temptress who enjoys passion and intimacy. At times sensual but at others interested in exploring our deepest desires.