Sexually, I'm more of a sensual and sweet type of lover. I like lots of sensual foreplay beforehand, like kissing and caressing. And also during. I don't do kinky-rough sex, it just doesn't feel right or natural to me to take or cause pain while having sex. I do like when sex gets a little rough, as in wrestling-rough. Somewhere along the lines of intense embraces and deep pounding thrusts. But no biting, scratching, pinching, hair-pulling, or other pain. My culture. I grew up in Southern California, aka Gangland. Literally, the namesake of the show on the History Channel. But I also narrowly escaped from that lifestyle and became a successful young professional. So I'm also concerned with living a fairly healthy and responsible lifestyle. I eat moderately healthy food. I get plenty of cardio at work. I supplement that with weightlifting a few times a week. I have a pension, a 401K, and a few other financial safety nets. I take pride in having a clean car and house. I also am proud of my lush green yard. I'm of mixed racial background. I'm half Eastern European, not to be confused with Western European aka "anglo-saxon". I'm also half Chicano( a race/ethnicity), not to be confused with a Mexican( a nationality). Perality wise, I'm an easygoing, positive, and agreeable kind of per. I don't mind when someone I like disagrees with me about something, even if they get mad about it. I'm from Cali and live in Texas, I'm used to being at least a little different from everyone I meet. I even tend to be able to get along with people when we obviously don't like each other. This one I think is because I'm just a naturally well mannered and respectful to others from the start. I'm an Atheist, a Negative Atheist specifically. I'm something of a homebody. I actually really enjoy going out, but prefer being at home. I'm a fairly shy per, but only because I'm not good at initiating conversation with strangers. I'm pretty good at conversing with women, and reading whatever non-verbal cues are sent my way. But, as an introvert, the approach is more of a challenge for me.

My Ideal Person Is a woman who has a nice/sweet personality. She must not play any mind games, as I often see couples do. I'm smart enough to see right through it the second if's attempted. And I'm equally as fast to call it out for the childish behavior it is. The only thing I won't do is actually play the mind game, and try to "beat" her at it. I'll just become irritated and a little turned off. If she wants to know something, she'll ask me outright. And she can discuss things with me openly, as two intelligent adults do. A woman who's a bit nerdy/intellectual is big a plus. I'm an intellectual, and my conversation/humor/wit tends to go right over the heads of dumber people. I won't do the alpha-male-tells-beta-woman-what-to-do "roles". I'm certainly not effeminate or emasculated, but I don't believe in this overly simplified all-or-none alpha-or-beta hierarchy. Over simplifying complex things is a big pet peeve of mine. And I think of any relationship as being a very complex mix of give and take. In spite of being an Atheist. I'm perfectly fine with my partner having theistic beliefs. Up to and including a religion. But the devoutly religious should look elsewhere.

Physically, I prefer curvy(hourglass) and/or bottom-heavy(pear-shaped) women. I think big hips, legs, and buttocks are insanely attractive on a woman. I like big breasts too. But smaller breasts look cute to me, so this I like both ways. Medium to dark complexion. This can be as light a golden brown, all the way to black. I even prefer brown nipples. I prefer long, straight, dark black hair. Decently fit. As in a decently shapely midsection, a fair amount of lower-body muscle, and some padding. I think women should be soft to the touch, so no women with visible muscle striations. These are just preferences though, not a checklist of mandatory features.

Culturally, I would prefer a woman who is somewhere between a rat, a nerd, and a hipster. Something of a female counterpart to how I see myself. She should be a little street-wise and hip-hop/ friendly. But at the same time she should be on the classy side. She should be into living a healthy and responsible lifestyle, not unlike mine. I know this is a weird and seemingly contradictory mix of qualities to have as an ideal. But it's just that, my ideal.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Red Hot Chili Peppers, Tupac, and everything in between.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Sanaa Lathan (love and basketball). I like women of all
races and colors, for varying features they have. And she
seems to have some of the features I like about each different
race of women. That is to say, she has a European skin complexion,
very curly hair and full lips of a Black/African, a heart/diamond
shaped face, and some other things.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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