I could tell u I am great at this and I will make you feel so good and all that blah blah shit, but that isn't me! I am 40 yrs old no s never been married. In a nut shell this statement is me through and through. I'm either all in or not in at all. If you and I are friends, lovers I have your back through thickest of shit. I dont judge because who the fuck am I to tell another per what or who or how they should be. I loyal to a fault my gift and my curse. I speak my mind and tell the truth because I live in reality and not candyland. I'm a very good listener which has become a lost art. I am content in my life but not complacent I'm always trying to evolve. I love intimacy because there is emotion and feeling in it. You can be the finest woman in the world but if I'm not attracted to your mind it's not going to work. Ask me whatever you want I am an open book. If you read this and want to be a friend, lover it doesn't matter hit me up